firstly - you're not a dumb kid...
adult behavior gets an adult response... not an excuse...
my thoughts... keep doing it...
it'll end no matter what -
A woman in America tends to either be:
a) a young man's wallet
or
b) an old man's plaything
You should find someone on your own level - then again perhaps you have!
in which case, nothing I say will sink in - because you're both shallow and selfishly motivated lovers...
if you can call what you do making love... I personally think there isn't a sincere bone or emotion within either of you...
then again, pure freedom is chaos... I know that
no rules - no progress
so see if you can set rules for your so-called "married" woman - which I don't believe exists at all -
if you can't set rules as the male - or acting like MAN
then you shouldn't care how you feel... you're not in any form of control - you've no choice power - and the woman will dispose of you soon...
women hate weaklings and wuss's...
you think you're better than her husband? not likely
See, if she's attracted this "ain't shit" man for a husband
she's still a creature of habits...
even worse... perhaps she just has some "ain't shit pussy" attracting "ain't shit men"
and YOU ARE with her... so maybe you have some "ain't shit dick"
you have a lot of INNER GAME work to do on your self image -
I personally have a detestion for monogamy...
What I REALLY DID DO is find a bi-sexual woman who was willing to be the head of 5 girlfriends for me... an organizer
women love drama and beautiful women are soooo competitive
yeah, I know, I rock like the friggin' Doors.... ha' lol!
there's three of us, and they only compete with each other in kindness towards me to woo my attention... I dole it out too
disbelievers? I've got the pics and one's a leggy dirty blonde
go ahead easy quib
the other's a little chocalate gymnast....
will it last...
Don't know -
Am I in control? Yes!
Now - can you tell the difference between your question and my actual facts ?
Next time a woman cheats on you, just leave and know she's not for you... don't try to understand it... forgive her and move on
it's most likely your fault for acting weak when you should have been Manly (which is actually ok)
or it's your fault for having no sense of humor, which is very attractive to women...
maybe you should get that aspect of your life handled... become improved little by little in every area of your life under your control...
The difference is night and day... so many attractive single and intelligent women will pursue you! that this will all be an distant and funny memory you can share with other ALPHA males,
You can all laugh about the time you let that woman dangle you like a sex toy till she found the CHANGE she really wanted..
Right now, she's just got a male version of herself... she won't stay and you can't explain it to her or bore her into a relationship with you...
you are only her physical release... you know there's no connection on the deepest of levels so stop pushing the issue - and if you can rationalize it and line it up with your morals, continue!
Other than that, all you can do is master your flaws or shortcomings and then attract the kinds of women and relationships that make you happy and fullfilled...
neither of which currently describes you.. "stud"
plus, if he catches you - even a wussy husband might murder your ass...
the drama!!!!!
that's also a feminine thing - are you gay?
o.k. puppet - you've got plenty to go on now... rock on
fin'