Boyfriend on drugs

someone i work has had a boy freind for 4 years. she found out tonight that he is on meth. she found out three years ago that he tried it, and he promised her that he would never do it again. i tried to give her the best advice i could. i said that "he lied, keep that in mind always. also all my experince with drigs have been bad. they took my dad over, my uncle, everyone else ive knonw. that doesnt mean that he will turn out that way. i dont how how he will turn out, but it has never been good for me."

help me help her. please.

The important thing to remember with drugs is that people react differently, even with alcohol. It also affects people differently on a day to day basis. My advice for her is to support him off the drug unless vilence comes into the scene. I say this because if she breaks up with him and he becomes depressed then drugs is an easy answer. This is possible to bring the two even closer together if he recovers and she was with him during his "darkest hour". Even the best of us can make big mistakes sometimes. But, of course if agression arrises then it's obvious to turn away.

Never trust a Meth addict.

I'm dealing with a pure alcoholic who decided to add Meth to his addiction. He is completely and totally obsessed with me, and when he started doing Meth...shoot...I can't even BEGIN to tell you what I have been through.

Let's just say I live in another city now....yet the harrassment will not stop.

I am waiting for him to hit rock bottom....(and praying he does)

Tell your friend to talk to him about it. If he wants help, by all means support him.

If he dosen't want help...tell her to run like hell.

phone lines, there are several numbers that can be called and professional help can be given over the phone, support him through it, it'll help alot, do NOT push it to far, if you keep on and on about they'll just get annoyed and the situation wil get worse, and thats about it, best of hope

Evilias advise is right on........I have "run like hell" with my lover twide before and still came back to him. Now, once again , I am trying to "run like hell".....so I have proved to myself it cannot get better if he keeps saying ""hey, drugs is not an issue" "just dont go there" etc etc
I have given it as much as I know how, and now I am even starting to think I may be hooked on Meth (may be) SO PLEASE, RUN LIKE HELL.........