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Emotional Intelligence

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 37yrs • M •
A CTL of 1 means that analytical29 is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
Emotional Intelligence
I am trying to control myself cuz i know that no one should take anything including life to seriously cuz 10 out of 10 people will in fact die..lol

i heard someone say that.. but honestly even tho i know this it is still hard at times to keep my kool?

Im really trying to be so intellectual about it.. i want to analyze every petty aspect of my life psychologically and philosophically

i think that everyone should have this state of self awareness at all times (or at least my fellow underground philosophers)

Have you ever had a thought that just kept going deeper and deeper and what would normally would make you indignant annoyed and resentful that in return just enlightens you cuz you understand the reason why now..

I have been reading up alot on psychology which has helped me to come up w/ my philosophical perceptions and theories............so i am starting to percieve the world like this more and more everyday.. and with all that occurs throughout my day

anything that happens i can just analyze and let go...

till i just cant analyze anymore....

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""That's only the tip of the iceberg.""
 60yrs • M •
A CTL of 1 means that TheIrishPagan is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
According to all sources, the leading cause of Death in the world today is...

Living.

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"Oops, it appears I have run over your dogma with my karma."
 37yrs • F •
A CTL of 1 means that Attolia is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
Well said, analytical. I've been trying to do that for years and will continue doing that. I'm getting better at feeling, controling my feelings, and using them to motivate me. I accept every feeling I get, analyze some of the ones that trouble me, and use these feelings to motivate me. And when I'm done, I put all that wisdom in storage to be used when I need it. It works, but it takes time.

The problem when I do that is I "seclude" myself from my environment because I'm almost always contemplating. I keep my thoughts to myself. I don't talk about meaningless things unless I need to. Then I have some of my friends telling me that I am living in a box and hiding from people. I tried to explain my philosophy to her, but she's not open to what I say. Sad...

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"How can we be just in a world without mercy and merciful in a world without justice?"
 37yrs • M •
A CTL of 1 means that analytical29 is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
that sounds just like my life...


is the "she" you are inferring possibly a girlfriend.. cuz mine does the same thing and says to me that she doesn't want to hear my stupid theories....haha

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""That's only the tip of the iceberg.""
 36yrs • F •
A CTL of 1 means that WanderingNobody is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
I know what you mean Attolia. I'm kinda like that too. Right now my friends seems kinda stupid or ignorant ( for lack of a better word) and it's sometimes frustrating.
Sometimes I know what I'm feeling, but I don't know why I'm feeling that way. It's like I'm watching someone else live through me, and I'm just watching but feeling, yet not understanding. Anyone ever get that?

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"Crap. I lost my watch, now I'm lost in time."
 35yrs • F •
A CTL of 1 means that Ana Rpo is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
Don't leave your theories, "she" may not want to hear you but that's what this forum is for (and I was talking about this with someone of us), this is an space where you can tell your theories and actually be heard and people won't tell you that you're crazy, instead they will discuss it with you, so enjoy this.

Do you want to know something funny... when I read the thread's tittle, I thought of a test that I saw and I still want to share it with you, even though I know this isn't what you're talking about:

Emotional IQ

And I've felt that way too, WanderingNobody, sometimes I don't know if I'm too calmed or if I just can't find myself and I start like to leave my body and everything happens very slow and I seem to be somewhere else 'cause people talk to me and I need more time to understand and to answer...

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"In the sea of ilutions and frustations that life is, some swim and some drown"
 36yrs • F •
A CTL of 1 means that WanderingNobody is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
I don't care if I'm crazy...at least I'm not the only one!!!

Oh, and I took that test before at Tickle.com.
My emotional IQ is 124, and I scored highest in "emotional management".

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"Crap. I lost my watch, now I'm lost in time."
 41yrs • M •
A CTL of 1 means that Wyote is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
mines 126, strong suit in Expression.

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"A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge. - Thomas Carlyle"
 39yrs • M •
A CTL of 1 means that 730 is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
your Emotional IQ is 133....Strong in perception....

is that high?....or what? I don't know....honestly i'm not sure, my relationships are aight but i don't know if i'm smart in any aspect of anything.....I just do what I can to keep people and myself happy with life....*shrugs*

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"Being is not knowing!"
 38yrs • M •
A CTL of 1 means that JoelB is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
126....my strongest suit is empathy...being able to see things from anothers point of view. very, very true.

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"Aint flashed a smile in a long while...."
 36yrs • M •
A CTL of 1 means that sleepingwraith is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
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"Life is such sweet sorrow."
 37yrs • M •
bighead is new to Captain Cynic and has less than 15 posts. New members have certain restrictions and must fill in CAPTCHAs to use various parts of the site.
I think we should analyse why every one needed to test themselves to be sure that they are emotionally intelligent. and the fact that we are standardizing such a thing as emotion... its shocking

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"their is always a way to make it better"
 36yrs • F •
A CTL of 1 means that WanderingNobody is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
I don't think I felt a need to test my emotional intelligence, like it was somehow fulfilling my life or anything. I just took it just because, I mean, everything you do doesn't always have to have a reason behind you actions or thinking. There's nothing really shocking about it.

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"Crap. I lost my watch, now I'm lost in time."
 37yrs • M •
A CTL of 1 means that analytical29 is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
Is being bored a good enough analysis bighead?

148 emotional iq.... Genius lol

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""That's only the tip of the iceberg.""
 37yrs • M •
bighead is new to Captain Cynic and has less than 15 posts. New members have certain restrictions and must fill in CAPTCHAs to use various parts of the site.
WanderingNo... "I just took it just because, I mean, everything you do doesn't always have to have a reason behind you actions or thinking."

Are you kidding me we are philosophers there is always a reason other wise we would question nothing. and how can you say that standardizing something a volitile and personal as your emotions isnt shocking. i would say its a true sign of our socialisation where like everything in our lives it is tested and anylysed by a greater body, instead of our selves.

btw being bored is so ort of one of those undisputable reasons i think its the reason the chicken gave when crossing the road.

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