Fat girl, tight clothes. - Page 4

but it to one's own opinion whether they're not the same person or not. If it's the inside that counts, then it won't matter.

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as for myself, i am a bonafied freak of nature, cant do a damn thing to change it, not even surgery. their are more people like this than you think.

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I know, I'm like that too, and I can't do anything about it, surgery means nothing to me--not many people know about it though. Sometimes I feel as if I am lesser then everybody. I don't have time to think that others are lesser then me. I can rightfully say that I don't think that someone less smarter or someone who I find unattractive is lesser then me.

I think alot of people are mistaking the large people in tight clothes for the large people with clothes that are someone elses. If you are fattastic, than be that in cool, hip, fashionable clothes, that is great, but come on now, no one wants to see a three hundred pound, five foot woman in a tube top and daisy-dukes.....there are clothes that can be flattering to a large woman, and concealing at the same time.

*applauds*

Thank you.

dang, I cant believe this thread got so long lol. Look what you started!! *gasp!*

TheTruth, what a beautiful mind you have. It's so refreshing to see you, and other young minds here, being without judgment.

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Let's keep in mind that there are many people out there with no control over their metabolism, and unless you're a fan of making fun of things that people can't change about themselves

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I know a woman like this. Her calorie intake is barely nothing, yet her metabolism prevents her from losing weight. Regardless, she's a beautiful person, inside and out.

I also want to discuss the flip side of the coin. People; need to stop assuming that a thin person is starving himself or herself. I have something called Graves' Disease. It's a result of having hyperthyroidism. Despite, eating anything I can get my hands on, the pounds would shed uncontrollably. Although some might find this side effect appealing, it's one of many that are uncomfortable.

i have a friend who is the same way ladytaz. if you didnt know him you would think he is a heroin addict because he is so thin. yet i lived with him for nearly a year and saw him eat steak, pasta and whole pizzas while washing it down with a few sodas nearly every day. it was even a running joke that he was going to eat us out of our home.

We weren't ever making fun of overweight people...just saying that they needed to dress accordingly. But moving on...I eat like a horse, but for some reason I never gain weight either. I've been trying for a really long time to put some weight on, for atheletic reasons (playing college soccer at 165 doesnt work out to well). And I can't do it lol. I eat burgers, pizza, steak, lasagna, spaghetti. Everything. lol

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We weren't ever making fun of overweight people...just saying that they needed to dress accordingly. But moving on...I eat like a horse, but for some reason I never gain weight either. I've been trying for a really long time to put some weight on, for atheletic reasons (playing college soccer at 165 doesnt work out to well). And I can't do it lol. I eat burgers, pizza, steak, lasagna, spaghetti. Everything. lol

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i bet you eat everything! lol...

Have you noticed how no ethiopians are big boned?

In general I think there are plenty of people, fat and thin who dress terribly. I guess the basis of this argument is about fat girls trying to dress slutty and showing everything off. When it comes to cheap nasty clothes I reakon it doesnt matter what size you are. I see plenty of skinny girls wearing heels higher than their skirts and I think they look slightly desperate. Fat or thin, the sexiest people I can think off don't have their bits hanging out, they leave a little to the imagination, dressing to suit their body type, holding your interest and having a bit of self respect.

hmm, Heavy set girls wearing skimpy outfits is by all means... wrong.. Sure, Sure they think it looks cute and stuff like that. But not to be mean but the majority of others around them would not find it appealing at all, unless of course they're into the bigger girls. -.-

Well personally, It's just not my preference.. I don't really like seeing stuff like that..some may think that's shallow of me to say but I don't think it is. I don't tell people they're shallow for things they like or don't like. If you're physically attractive, sure, but when you get to the point where you're overweight for your age/height/what ever I think there needs to be a cut off point c__c
yeah,yeahh, It may not be their fault for being overweight but none the less they're still big and don't need to show the world..

Srry if that makes me sound like an asshole

People in general should just wear less revealing clothing. Some of the most beautiful people I have ever seen just wore regular clothes nothing fancy or revealing.
People talk about confidence being attractive well how confident is it of someone to simply wear what every other person is wearing that year?

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I think there are plenty of people, fat and thin who dress terribly

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That's just opinion. Another person could say you dress terrible. The whole basis of clothing was to keep people warm. Now a days people don't have to worry about that so much, which gives people the option of wearing what they want. It's basically freedom of expression now. If people want to dress like whores they can, but they must accept the fact of being treated like a whore. Like Dave Chappelle said "you are wearing a whore uniform aren't you!" Although I don't believe in stereotyping the majority of society does. Don't complain about your respect falling faster than a ton of bricks.

Hi guys, I am a "curvy" girl, and my opinion is that its a matter of class, no matter what size you are. If a chunky girl wears the right clothes and carries herself like a lady I believe men will find them much sexier. The key is to accentuate the postive parts.
I agree that it is a common sense issue. If you have a beer belly showing off a belly-button rings is not attractive. It would make more sense to perhaps accentuate a nice full bossum or a pretty face. Carrying yourself with class and confidence is the key to attracing a man.

I'm with the people saying shut up and cover up.