Women are scared sexy... - Page 2

Walts...

~grins~...yeah, I know...You, Lynnie, Stat, and cute'n'cuddly have seen pics of me...

but, I feel safe enough with all of you...

I trust you will not be calling my boss or the local paper...to exploit me in any way?...~laughs~

Thanks for the nice words, it is nice to plop in and see ya'll again...

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Dingleberry...

I see that my time away...has not allowed any growth for you?

I don't care what goes on, with Walts...or the "rumor mill" in this place...

I just know that I made some nice friends in here, and they happen to be all in the same family...

So, save your gossip for someone who cares, hun...

I really like the new community here at UGN actually. I've been reading a lot of the stuff people are writing and everyone is so open minded.

It just hurts me to see closed minded people return. i fear the forums might degrade into something ugly once again.

Not that you are closed minded MG, because I don't remember ever discussing anything with you. But if you are friends with walts, well, that in itself is less than encouraging.

Which is why I am posting what I post. Lord knows everyone appreciates walts' illogical and prejudice views... I just don't get why you people who say you're leaving for good tend to return nonetheless. I suppose it is the need to be dramatic, as if anyone cares.

Again MG, this has nothing to do with you.

And just to stay on topic, I think that women love to claim they are bi-sexual because (apparently) it is every guy's fantasy to be with 2 women at the same time. I think a lot of women like to think they are bi-sexual or are at least open to it because they know that makes them more desireable to men.

Dingleberry....

I am sorry to hear that you feel this way, I really am...

I guess, that I am willing to look past all the drama...

Each person is created different from the other....and we all have different opinions that we share. This is why this site was created...

I guess that I must be more open minded than others, because of the life that I lead...(even though most of my "activity" is behind closed doors)...~laughs~...

and I guess that we should get back to the original thread here...

which is...

...women and sexuality...

~lil' grins~

so...do you have thoughts about this subject?

okay, you are too fast for me...

to edit your post...before I could finish mine...

dingleberry...~smiles~

I agree with you about the fact that some women do claim to be... "bi", merely to pique the interest in men...

however, I say it, because I am...and have no interest in "impressing" men, as I have one...

and yes, He does enjoy the fact that I am...but it is not for Him that I have chosen to explore this side of me...it is for me...and my pleasure...

to explore the "erotic" side of life...

You only live once...right?

Mg: I was just asking. Never been to Denver, or even anywhere in the "west" besides Park City, UT. I thought I had read somewhere that you were from Denver and I guess I might have put you to someone else's info.

But, if you had chosen Mountain Girl for your name, I would have found it interesting. She was spoken of a lot in Kerouac and Kesey's journals, and she had such a beautiful mystery about her since she never chose to reveal her real name.

In any case, you're a woman who doesn't need someone else's name tacked on to you to make it show that you're unique and lovely because that's who you are.

Cheers.

Jet....

Cheers to you, as well...

~lil' grins~

MG, that is perfectly fine. Everyone has there own sexual minds and it doesn't bother me at all. I am glad that you are comfortable with that side of you. Besides, I have missed you also and as you know I am by far not one to judge

I must say though, MG has really helped this argument. I guess not all girls are "scared sexy".

I don't know. Throw me a bone with that one.

The origional post is rather interesting-
are women presured into finding other women attractive
and are differennt body types portrayed in different periods of art?

I think now days it is 'cool' for women to be attracted to women but I do not see any pressure for them to do so- there is a lot of portrayals of woman on woman sexuality that is main stream directed at men. Many men like to watch the woman on woman action- I think the reason being that a man could could image himself as either at anytime and get something from that. perhaps those fantasies have spilled over as inadvertent or implied expectations which may or may not be true depending on the individual. I think either sex can understand what the other finds to be attractive or not and that of course can be anchored to a specific time.

Art and even pornography can show us how prefered body types have changed over the years. If you look at turn of the century paintings the ladies are much more voluptous (ie a greater body fat content) if you looka s well at hollywood startlets of the 40's and 50's they are not at all like the the stars of today- but also they are from a diferent era there was not as much skin shown back in those days.
I am always baffled when it comes to fashion models they are so groosly thin- they do not look sexy at all and most women don't look like that either... Aside from that the ideal woman seems to have slowly shifted to a busty thin and lean look. A lot of women strive for that toned body. Certainly there is a huge emphasis on breasts which I don't mind I think women with bigger breasts look better with clothes on, women with small breasts are equally attractive. There is much more to it than that- Healthy looking skin, smiles waist to hip ratio are all important factors.
The ideals perpetuated by fashion and pop culture including pornography are not necesarily those held by everyone. I think if women could read the minds of every man they came into contact with they would be surprised as to how many found them attractive.