How often do you musterbate?

I'm talking about musterbation lol
I rarely do it actually, maybe once or twice a month, but when I do so, I feel an irresistable desire to do it, and I spend a couple of hours continuously doing it maybe hhh

I'm wondereing, how many times is it healthy to do it?
and how often do YOU do it??
(I'm 19, a girl btw)
thx )

Well, I looked in the new topics section without seeing that this was in the "sexuality" forum. I thought you were referring to Albert Ellis' therapeutic terminology, "musterbation". When you hold onto an irrational belief that you must do this or that, and if not, catastrophe occurs.

But no, you're talking about little men in boats and chicken choakin'. Hmmmmmm, well, I do it a lot on weekends when I have free time/am in front of this computer.

I have a partner I've been with a long time, and she doesn't seem to mind that I do it. Honestly, as a man, I enjoy the having the power to do it. I can cum in a matter of a minute if I desire to. Or I can hold it for an eternity for my lover. I love exercising this power. And frankly, it's mighty convenient to "rub one out" real quick when I do not wish to engage in pleasuring another. I can skip all the foreplay and time expenditure, getting to that 10 seconds of non-temporal bliss quickly. I like that.

But it's kind of selfish of me, as my lady has a higher sex drive/attraction to me than I do for her. I think I often leave her in wanting, but that's another topic already discussed. I'm going to have to resolve to not use these "back door" ways of gratification (eg; wanking to porn) if I want to give her my all, and give it more often. Which I want to do, because I do love her.

Are you convinced she would even consider doing the same for you? Putting your needs before hers? Just curious.

I go in stages. Sometimes I will do it alot, the same day as sex. My sex drive will go off the charts. Sometimes I will refuse to do it just because. If I hallucinate for an instant that I would be justifying it as a need, I will forgo orgasm until that illness has passed in my mind.

EVERYDAY!

I am surprised to read in one source that masturbating everyday is considered compulsive.

Well, we shower everyday, right? We brush our teeth everyday. We check the mail and talk to our kids. We work. We do a lot of things everyday.

Stress relief, people.

I am a proud and liberated 32 year old woman.

me,,sometimes although other people says that it is a good thing for our body,,

Believe it or not, sometimes masturbating is less about sexual thoughts and feelings and more about anxiety. Many men, when they're feeling stressed about work or home life, tend to masturbate as a way to relieve the tension and anxiety. Now don't get me wrong; of course masturbation is also about sexual frustration. If your woman is not giving it to you enough or not the way you like it, then masturbation is one way to relieve the pent-up sexual aggression trapped inside of you.