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 65yrs • M •  A CTL of 1 means that okcitykid is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.  |
Every article I've read indicates that it is worse for women then men.
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"A fool says I know and a wise man says I wonder."
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37yrs • M • A CTL of 1 means that Jacker_Jones is a contributing member of Captain Cynic. |
Maybe not make it go away but I think it'd definitely help progress the road of recovery.
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"I love to see people struggling for their purpose in life..."
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36yrs • M • A CTL of 1 means that Cynic-Al is a contributing member of Captain Cynic. |
thinking things out does help, but in the case of your friends, the one you described as thinking about it clearly, has the advantage of objectivity, he didnt love the girl, and wont miss her like his friend does. he can think clearly because he didnt get hurt, embrace the pain, but dont let it engul you.
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"So Schrodinger's Cat is not only neither dead nor alive, but might also be sexually aroused by elbows and peanut butter?"
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37yrs • F • A CTL of 1 means that Attolia is a contributing member of Captain Cynic. |
I am being very general and stereotypical.
Girls are raised to be social creatures while guys are raised to be independat and possibly loners. And girls are raised to act passive and feel victimized, which results in much weeping after a breakup. An active person will think, "So one relationship went wrong. I'll try again." The passive person will weep for days before moving on.
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"How can we be just in a world without mercy and merciful in a world without justice?"
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37yrs • M • A CTL of 1 means that Jacker_Jones is a contributing member of Captain Cynic. |
Cynic that was the point that if your mind wasn't full of emotion you wouldn't care. The only reason you do care is because emotion makes you care.
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36yrs • M • A CTL of 1 means that Cynic-Al is a contributing member of Captain Cynic. |
i realised the slight stupidity of that comment.
but it is slightly unfair to compare the reaction of an observer to that of the person involved, as their situation is so very different.
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"So Schrodinger's Cat is not only neither dead nor alive, but might also be sexually aroused by elbows and peanut butter?"
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37yrs • M • A CTL of 1 means that Jacker_Jones is a contributing member of Captain Cynic. |
Is it that different? Or is only different because we think it's different? I think it's possible to feel the same way in both positions.
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37yrs • M • A CTL of 1 means that Zato is a contributing member of Captain Cynic. |
I think this thread topic is ridiculous.
It all depends. wtf?
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"Anything is Possible when you think illogically."
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36yrs • M • A CTL of 1 means that Cynic-Al is a contributing member of Captain Cynic. |
i think you are probably right, but its fun to discuss.
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"So Schrodinger's Cat is not only neither dead nor alive, but might also be sexually aroused by elbows and peanut butter?"
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34yrs • M • Luvable_loser90 is new to Captain Cynic and has less than 15 posts. New members have certain restrictions and must fill in CAPTCHAs to use various parts of the site.  |
True, but is it really worth spending time over it?
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"It's not always about you, but sometimes you have to for the better."
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35yrs • M • A CTL of 1 means that Endless Feed is a contributing member of Captain Cynic. |
I think that it could be either painfull for either of the two. I know friends from both genders that have gone through alot of pain over break ups, and those who were like, it was no big deal.
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