awakendwraith, assuming that you are being serious (are you?), I propose that the reason you are "addicted" to these forums is that you are looking for real opinions (not masked by the need to be 'cool'
) of legitimate life questions. Now, you should not try to drop this quest, but many people find ways to be less driven by it. I, for one, set aside a chunk of my day that is solely dedicated to an activity that is concretely benificial to myself and my family, thereby feeling that I have accomplished something by the end of the day. Optimally, you could find another person (parents, siblings, friends, teachers, etc.) who is willing to recognize the work you do in this activity, and even more optimally, you could pick a specific class in school to be that activity.