Last guys finish last - Page 3

i dont think so, i think theyre just plain dumb. or mayb in love with having a boyfriend or in love with love.

everyone has flaws. when you are in love, a persons flaws are not flaws at all. if one of those flaws happens to involve them using you in some way, you will not see it as a flaw.

wyote....your right, and i understand that, but it's hard when you see a friend being used,and knowing that they're just going to be hurt, but they cant see it for themselves

4720.....i dont really think you know what you're talking about

i disagree to an extent. i agree with his comment about the pornstars bit, they are catering for a large male interest that female interest. but as for the millionaires thing, thats just cos women have only recently had the opportunity to make themselves money, so most old female millionaires, have inherited their fortunes.

the problem i think is that the nice guys tend to look at the girls who are slutty and are afrer 'Bad' boys
what they want in a girl isnt in the girls they tend to look at
if they lookked at the quieter girls they might actually find some one who 1. will go out with them and 2. will get on with

Yea I guess it is kinda true that "Nice guys finish last"..even with me..some of the "nice guys" are just too nice..and yea girls lik some of the jerks b.c they giv us attention..even if they r a lil bit perverted!..we rather hav someone thats not afraid 2 get close 2 us then someone who is jus too "nice" to get to close or personal!?

we say keep it mean, keep 'em keen in these parts

woah what an old thread! I wrote in this when i was around fifteen i believe and i said something dumb like lifez a bitch, LOL, ive stopped putting zs instead oF S. Hey i like nice men as long as they're not boring. They dont need to have an attitude problem and walk around wit their damn trousers half off to be attractive. God i hate it when men do that. WOMEN LIKE NICE MEN JUST NOT BORING BLOKES. bUT HEY everyone can choose who they believe is boring, theres no specific criteria.

peace.

cinda11, Congrats, you win "The Best Bump of 2007" Award!

cinda11:

i just want to thank all the lil people who made this possible.... sniff sniff...

I have totally different perspective on this. I wonder if it's because of my generation being different or because of where I was brought up.

It isn't that a girl sees a guy and decides he's an asshole so she becomes attracted to him. Or sees a nice guy and thinks he will be boring.

It's the opposite of that. It's the experiences with the opposite sex growing up that decides if we end up being a good guy or bad guy.

It isnt that people all have the exact same amount of women after them and they either had this choice to be an asshole or a nice guy. And your choice in being either was what made you end up with all the women. Otherwise wed all choose to be the bad guys so we could come first.

Basically when I was in highschool when a girl saw a guy who was handsome they would go for him. And when they have this good looking guy it makes them feel important because he chose her over all the other girls after him.

And they learn they have to turn a blind eye to the way he treats her because her position is very precipitous. Its like she has to fight and claw her way to be on his arm, and if she doesn't accept the way he treats her- he can always dump her for the twenty other women that are after him.

And when these guys have so many women lining up for them they learn that they can treat a women like dirt and the women will accept it.

And with all these women throwing themselves at them they would find plenty of opportunities to cheat and learn how to lie and be a 'playa' as it's called now.

But the guys who weren't as attractive, well they couldn't exactly afford to call a girl a ho and get away with it. They couldn't cheat or lie and they had to be extra nice to compensate for their being less attractive to a woman.

It's like they had to try harder to be with a girl because not many girls were after them.

So it came to the way men and women grew up.

If you had 20 women after you, you soon learned that you cold be an asshole and you'd always have a woman (or 5) in your bed. This is what made men into what people are referring to as the 'bad boys.'

But if you had no woman interested in you then you learned you had to compensate for this by being a gentleman and not cheating or lying or calling a girl names or being a total asshole to her, or you would have no one in your bed.
And this is what made you into the so called 'nice guy.'

You can reverse that the same way too. The best looking girls when I was in highschool were total bitches. Because they knew they could be like that and get away with it. Us guys would still want to be with them no mater how bitchy they were.

This is just the law of Nature. No different to a peacock with the biggest colorful plumage getting the female peacock over the peacock with the lesser plumage.

And Im sure if peacocks had human personalities the more colorful one would lie about all day expecting sex while the less colorful one would be happy to make the nest and go out and hunt for food. And while he was doing that the most colorful peacock would be around his nest shagging his wife.

Im not saying this is how all people behave or grow up. I was attractive to the opposite sex and a nice guy at the same time. I also finished last a lot. I think this was due to my lack of aggression when it came to going after women. Im sure I could have come first over most assholes, but I just didn't try hard enough.

We all have reasons for being the way we are. But my observations when I was younger on how men treated women and who got the women etc have lead me to the idea that generally this was the reason a lot of guys are assholes and get the women- while a lot of guys are nice and don't get the women. But it isn't a concrete theory that encompasses ALL people. It's just a generalization which I have found to make the most sense.

Nice guys finish last is a conclusion that says playing by the rules doesn't win the game.

Joe and Bob two friends walking down the street until they were stopped by a man pointing a gun at them. The man said, "Give me your money".

Joe handed Bob a fifty dollar bill. "What's this?" Bob asked.

"It's the fifty dollars I owe you," answered Joe.