Paedophilia - Page 3

I've been listening. But as I hear people rationalising all sorts of strange behaviour as part of my job, I can no longer acccept that there is any difference between paedophilia and homosexuality.

In both cases, mainly caused by the person entertaining the idea until it actually manifests itself as desire. Of course, both paedos and homos say 'we can't help it'. Bollocks!

rancid, you believe sex is something everybody is allowed to do from a certain age. My belief is somewhat different. I feel that sex is something everybody is allowed to do when they have sorted out their lives first.

It may sound strange to someone brought up in a promiscuous society, but to me it makes perfect sense.

your wrong about what i belive.......i think peopel should have sex when they are ready.....but, i dont belive an 8 year old can possibly be ready for everything that comes with sex....and any adult who has sex with an 8 year old is sick in my mind....your taking advantage of a child...and yes adults can take advantage of other adults but thats quite different,as an adult you should be aware of the chance you are taking.....im sorry but nothing will change my mind here.....anyone who has sex or tries to have sex with children should be locked away

So true. But as long as we have irresponsible, dotty adults running around like horny headless chickens. We are never going to be able to stop the root cause of paedophilia, and therefore, every generation will have them in their ranks.

It is a sad thought, but an unavoidable one. I even seen it becoming so bad that one day, it might even be treated as lightly by police as they currently treat burglaries in high crime neighbourhoods!

The only way to stop the next generation from having these sick bastards in their ranks, is by changing the way we ALL view sex of any kind... of course, that ain't gonna happen!

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do you not look at a well toned man with perfect bronze skin, sweat glistening off his chest with lust?

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Lust: n To have an intense or obsessive desire, especially one that is sexual.

Wy, you're too cute. There are many men that I find extremely attractive, but NOT lust over.

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everyone has triggers that send them in to a lustful overdrive.

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but, as long as they don't act on their desires, i don't see why they should be hated or punished for something they can't control, do you?

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And everyone has triggers that send him or her to anger. If a person were to fantasizes about beating and skinning a person alive, every time he was angry, would you say he was human?

Excuse for the foul language I'm about to use:

On the first page I discuss a case about a pedophile that is a lawyer. This motherfucker, by the name of John Lockhart, is accused of raping a 4-month-old infant. A four month old! Toddlers, infants, and children, are not little adults. This isn't rocket science. At what point does an adult look at a child and want to molest him/her instead of natural instinct to protect? John Lockhart didn't just wake up one morning and rape this infant. I guarantee he fantasized about it for years. The same fantasy that some of you think is harmless.

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If you have to be a millionaire before being allowed to have sex, you would have those who would fantacise about having sex with someone who isn't a millionaire. You would also have non-millionaires fantacising about having sex with other non-millionaires.

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Not if that millionaire was two years old!

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I believe sex AT ANY AGE is wrong if you are using it simply for pleasure.

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WTF?

Why should people only be accountable for their actions and not their thoughts?

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as long as they don't act on their desires, i don't see why they should be hated or punished for something they can't control, do you?

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So let me ask you a question, is a pedophile that only views child porn via internet, not "acting" on their desires?

You can never hope to control another persons thoughts m'lady. So it is only their actions we can hope to curb.

Looking at kiddys on the net is just as bad as doing it, they are both ACTION.

You cannot, however, see into peoples minds. So the only paedophiles you can act against, are the ones who have already acted.

That is why I commented about the fact that as long as we have a society that views sex as a pleasurable exercise, we will ALWAYS have people perverting it in their own minds.

A sad state, I know. But I don't see anyone in this world giving up their 'right' to sex, even if it was to stop paedophilia. A society creates its own problems, and that same society moving as one is the only power great enough to fix them.

So ask yourself this... Would you, as a responsible, well rounded adult, give up sex(on the most part), in the hope that our children's children will not have to put up with paedophiles?

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So ask yourself this... Would you, as a responsible, well rounded adult, give up sex(on the most part), in the hope that our children's children will not have to put up with pedophiles?

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Absolutely! It took me a half-second to answer that.

I have a feeling my daughters have visit this site, so keeping this in mind, I will answer you as vaguely as possible.

I've been married for almost 19 years. Having sex with the same partner for 19 years, becomes a much deeper connection than just pleasure. However wonderful it is, if someone came up to me and asked me to give that up, sex would be gone. The pleasure of knowing that no child will have to endure pedophiles, takes prominence over the pleasure of sex.

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Looking at kiddys on the net is just as bad as doing it, they are both ACTION.

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Thank you. Thank you for conveying what I've been trying to say throughout this topic.

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It is that kind of thought process, that allows adults to continue taking advantage of children. You must have known exactly what you wanted when you were 13-years-old, to make such a bold comment.

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Taking advantage of children and falling in love are not the same thing.

You're getting the two mixed up.

Love might be an excuse for an adult to take advantage of a child, take that excuse away, then they'll just use a different one.

ok here we go. it would seem from the general concensus of the thread that it is your thoughts manifesting themselves into actions which creates prefernces and/or differences among people. so, if we can understand why some people think about sex with children or some other such thought process which leads to pedophillia, then we can possibly keep people away from whatever it is that creates this.

still, im not so sure this is the case. i think genetics are at play at least to a certain extent. if it were all about manifesting thoughts differently then we could probably make everyone straight. but we cant. or can we? oh but wait, we dont want to do that.

yes, totally, looking at child porn is definitely wrong. like i said, choices should dictate how people ought to be treated, and looking at child porn is definitely a choice.

i think a person who is attracted to children has the capability of being a good person, simply by knowing how wrong it is to act on their desires in any way and successfully fighting them. you would think a decent person's own self-disgust at the fact that they are looking at child porn would trump their sexual arousal.

Think about it - would you enjoy looking at kiddy porn? I mean, they're not grown up. Those attributes that attract the opposit sex have not yet developed. Therefore, those who do so are not normal. It should not be encouraged or tolerated.

But that is not the same thing as an adult falling for a young man or woman or vice versa, a young man or woman falling for an older person. The two are not the same thing. This kind of thing long ago was considered very normal.

All this is very interesting....question?

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[quote]:Taking advantage of children and falling in love are not the same thing.

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look at the teacher, who by the way just married her former student, what category would she fall under.....she took advantage of a child, who fell in love with her and she fell for him, and had two babies with him . how would you explain this.
And if it happened once what's to say she won;t get tired of this guy and fall for some other kid?...... ....just wondering

I hate Paedophiles half of you fucker's would hate them too if you were molested by one
I believe I have the same opinion as 99% of normal society if you don't agree then your sick.
I don't know how stealing the innocence of a child can be justified in anyway, It is sealing a part of there soul.
Hate is a powerful word a lot of people use it very lightly, I have the world's hate towards Paedophiles.
If we don't protect our children we'll know that for the rest of their life they will feel very sad and some might even kill themselves or worse, so if you are a Paedophile or agree with Paedophilia and your reading this I can't change your sick mind but I can teach normal people to be aware of sick people like you.
Don't feel sorry for me I feel sorry for you.

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okcitykid: Love does happen between young and old. Elvis, or the teacher who married her student after she got out of prison for supposidly raping him.

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Lady Tazmanian: It is that kind of thought process, that allows adults to continue taking advantage of children. You must have known exactly what you wanted when you were 13-years-old, to make such a bold comment

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okcitykid: Taking advantage of children and falling in love are not the same thing.

You're getting the two mixed up.

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Actually, I think you're the one that is confused. Of course they're not the same, yet you want to justify a 34-year-old teacher having sex with a 13-year-old child, because they're married and in-love. Whether you believe it or not, that teacher took advantage of a child. Justify all you want, but a pedophile is not a normal human being.