My f'ed up dream

I have a recurring dream that I have been having a lot lately. It wold only happen when I was at my girlfriends (ex) house sleeping with her. The dream would consist of me and her, in the EXACT sleeping positions we were in at the time, the same room, same setting, same EVERYTHING. But it would be a dream. In my dream I would awake. In the room, next to her, but I wouldnt be able to move, or breath, or talk. I would find myself trying to move to get her attention, and trying to say "Kali...Kali...help me". But all that would come out was a quiet raspy noise, as if I was getting choked. It litterally felt like I couldnt breath, I remember thinking while IN my dream, "Is this a dream, or is this actually happeneing?". Because the setting in the dream was the EXACT same as my surroundings. Usually, I have very good control over my dreams, I can be in the middle of a dream, not like it, and in my dream i say to myself "Ok, this sucks, wake up" I will close my eyes in my dream, and when I open them again, I will be awake. But when I have THIS dream, that ability is gone. Its like Im stuck, not being able to breathe, or move, or talk. When I finally do awake from it, I have to wake Kali and ask her if I was just talking in my sleep, because I really dont know if Its a dream or not, but I guess it is, because she never hears me, or feels me struggleing (sp?). I can move slightly in my dream, but only enough to grasp my neck, like I am choking. I dont know what to make of this....what about you guys? It has happened at least 4 or 5 times

maybe the dream is symbolic of you looking to her for something...no matter what it is and her not responding to your needs....

or mabey it means that u feel traped with her or that u are traped and u are trying to say something to her or trying to get her help but u dont have the willpower to say it or as if u are getting ur point across and mabey she dosent seem to care for it