I thought alot of people would have the similar view as me., which is good. Im not saying dont do anything but yeah the ideas that have come up are great.
I think Em's little idea to give the kids alittle something is great!
I think people that have started a new relationship feel more obliged to do something and buy that person a gift so they wont feel bad.
I guess as you get more and more comfortable with your partner you know what each other need/want and its simple and sweet to do something you enjoy together. Weather it be watching movies or making love on the beach etc.