I agree.
In fact, competition is healthy. If we lose sight of a goal, we lose sight of our future.
Live and learn, and find out that life is NOT guaranteed to be easy. Children today are so protected from losing they will, in the future, take things much harder than they will now as children.
Kids bounce back, and they learn. Life is a continuous progression towards obtaining a desired goal. If a child does not have the lessons in youth to accept defeat, they will be quite taken aback by how hard life really is later.
Also too, in some or many schools, they have taken out 'keeping score' so children won't feel bad about losing.
I believe assinine is the word I am searching for. As an adult, I know I lost in sports, but I cannot recall how or why, but just enjoying the game.
More evil.