What you said made perfect sense to me now. And you agree or do you have anything on that note you wish to dispute or discuss? If you believe I am wrong that is fine, as long as you support it.
do you believe that God should have not created a way for humans to sin? Assuming God has ultimate control and knowledge, then anything that happens is caused by him. I see no reason to send group A to heaven for having a better hand than group B, who all go to hell.
You may be interested in looking up Zimbardo's Prison Study.
http://www.dushkin.com/connectext/psy/ch15/zimbard.mhtml Simply by changing the roles of two different groups of students, one group becomes abusive and another submissive. The study was to go on for a two weeks but never made it passed the first.
What I believe this implies is that God doesn't exist as we are told he does. He would either be something closer to the devil, by tricking us into thinking we have free will and punishing us... or he doesn't exist, either at all or as an all powerful being.