pain and the first time - Page 2

that is what more people know commonly as a nympho...lmao

don't worry, i'm kinda like that too

That nympho stuff is an old wives tale. We are what we are and its normal. Enjoy it while you can (be careful and considerate), because you get older and stop being a nympho and it kinda feels like something in you has died, sorta like, the party is over.

But don't ever let anyone make you feel ashamed for being what comes natural - its the way God made it, and when he was done, he said it was good.

Don't even get your "God" involved in this. Yes, He made sex to be one of the most pleasurable experiences, but it was made to be between man and wife. You know, that one thing where a male and female promise to live together for as long as they live?? Yeah. You sound like a twisted gay priest giving his blessing to the seculars' belief. I bet you're pentacostal.

*joking*

yeah, i had some pain my first time.

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Don't even get your "God" involved in this.

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And you are?

back on topic, please.

and maybe you should be blocked who feels it is your duty to police this forum, and my free speech.

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God damnit can't we leave this shit in religion and philosophy ¬¬

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So what will we talk about now that its members believe it should be censored?

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god has nothing to do with pain and the first time. its called thight muscels. god did not design the body so that it could, with much pain, take a penis

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and you know this because?

Getting back on track...and away from the pain part. What is every one's thoughts on their first time?

My first time was horrible, my first liberty from boot camp, San Diego California, me and my buddies got a hotel room and this philipino girl kept following us around asking us for a date. We tried to ignore her at first, seemed kinda odd, a complete stranger would ask you for a date, but she insisted, so we invited her to our room, turned out she was a hooker and we had money to burn. I felt guilty about it for the longest time.

I prayed to God and asked for forgiveness.

Do you pray to God Ancient - And I will talk about God here, and I will talk about God everywhere - I'm not ashamed, not scared - are you?

Get used to it or leave.

No I don't. I forgive myself when I feel I've done something wrong.

What should happen is that as you as you become properly stimulated your cervix should retract and your vagina expand slightly and become lubricated. Even a virgin should in principal be able to accommodate the penis of any healthy man painlessly. That's what should happen. However there is a condition know as vaginismus. It psychosomatic often caused by rape or a bad experience with a gynaecologist. Women experiencing this maybe in capable on having sex. Every time anything comes near their the vagina contacts. Thing is a virgins mental state can make her susceptible to similar contractions. Imagine trying to force a poo sized carrot through your anus while its clenched. I think you'll agree it would hurt yet the act of defecating is painless. Your lubrication and weather or not your vagina readies it self for sex as it should is largely depended on your mental state. This is largely because sex is primarily an emotional and spiritual thing not to be taken lightly or done on a whim. A virgins nerves likely arise from legitimate sensible concerns that may bare further examination on her part.