What makes you cry? - Page 2

if you have an arrow above your name your a guy. a plus means your a girl. and i try to be as stupid as possible when watching movies, i have more fun that way. unless the movie is an intelligent one, like the matrix.

nothing can make me cry... the last time i cried was when i was having severe pain. I had nasal surgery, and i had these 2 foamy pieces in my nostrils, and this was the day after. Basically i had to remove these two pieces, couldnt do it myself way too painful So i got my dad to pull it out for me. Omg it hurt sooo badly soo fuckin badly i started to cry... i literally turned into a fountain, i couldnt stop crying my dad held me in his hands..... it felt really good.... like i needed the release...

i dont remember the last time i cried from pain. but thats not saying much because i havent felt any real pain in a long time.

i cry when i fail and when i get really embaressed in a huge crowd. lyk i dnt cry l8, my eyez get watery ryt there.
i also cried at the end of city of angels. beautiful film.
i cry when my mum beats me.
i cry when my siblings get beats
BUT
i neva cry in front of ppl
except 4 the whole embaressement bit, then i run and cry by myself.

the matrix aint hard 2 understand, that fucking planet of the apes woz difficult.

I don't cry in public, In private, I try not to, in my mind, I never stop.

why do you hide your tears?

Hiding your tears is a way of hiding a weakness. No one wants to be thought of as weak. And, in some culture, an over-expression of emotions is discouraged.

Question: Should you cry whenever you feel like it or look at everythig objectively and just move on?

To be objective allows one to learn from pain. To just cry when you feel like it is a way of embracing but never overcoming pain.

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way of embracing but never overcoming pain.

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yes its a way of embracing. Crying is a natural mechanism to cope with pain.

But to just cry and be emotional will not solve a problem. Crying is a temporary fix.

Yes, it won't completely solve the problem, but it helps partially to solve the problem- thats what emotions are.

i geuss i like the pain. 'cause im real objective (see right and wrong thread) and i enjoy crying. and it really helps me learn, about myself and other people, and who cars if someone thinks of you as weak?

i cry after sex............ haha ;lol jokes ummmmmm i cry when i am beaten to a pulp

does anybody here actually do that? why would any body?